The most common female complexes

What are the complexes that have a woman prevent her to live and be happy? Learn about the most common women’s complexes and try to get rid of them if they are present

The theme of female complexes is relevant at all times. It is almost impossible to find a woman, confident in his perfectness one hundred percent. Everyone has a disadvantage that it pursues and does not allow to sleep peacefully at night, appearing on the beach or greet ankle in a public place. Moreover, in comparison with men, women do not want to put up with their complexes, even if they are fetched and even if they are on the way to happiness. What complexes are considered the most common?

The most famous women’s complexes

• Inferiority complex
  

  Here you can take too much chest and, on the contrary, a very small, lack of waist and feet, which start immediately from the neck, and at the same time the curvature of these legs, the big ears, the wrong noses, «flattened» feet and pr. Already appearing at the mirror in the morning, the woman is already looking for these shortcomings, surviving, jumping on the scales, making her husband to the wall of traditional questions – «I’m not too fat?», «You do not think that I have a nose – potatoes?», «I have the truth-true beautiful legs?». Low self-esteem becomes a reason for depression, for refusing pleasure, for expensive senseless operations and for the emergence of new complexes. As a rule, wine for these complexes lies on the woman itself. It is she who comes up with difficulty for themselves, so that they are heroically overcome. Although it often happens that the culprits of the complexes become overcome «honest» or just unceremonious partners.

• «I am fat!»
  

  This phrase, through the sobs and crunch of the cake, which is hired by the grief, can be heard from a woman of all age. Today, even fifteen-year-old girls, with horror, finding a couple of extra centimeters on the hips, rushes to the monitor in the search for the best diet for fast slimming. What can we talk about more adult young lady, for which the covers of fashion magazines are the most powerful source of stress. Depression caused by overweight, in turn, are removed by the traditional method – sweets and other goodies. As a result – a closed circle. But before you sit on a rigid diet (for example, Diet Margarita Queen) and get into panic, it makes sense to turn to the doctor (for example, to the endocrinologist). It is possible that extra kilograms are a consequence of any violations in the body.

• Postpartum complex
  

  This is real «Clades» complexes: sagging belly, stretch marks on chest, stomach and hips, overweight, fatigue on face, and, among other things, still loss of libido, which is even temporary, but against the background of general stress seems irreversible.  Through it passes every mother, and the only advice here is – to wait for this period, stock patience and not to launch your body. Find at least fifteen minutes a day to maintain your body in normal physical form – not a problem. Read, how to get rid of stretch marks at home.  It all depends on the desire. With regular gymnastics, proper nutrition and faith in yourself, you can restore the shape of the chest and tighten the belly. Libido will not go anywhere – return. As for stretch marks – over time they will become less noticeable.

• «I am old!»
  

  This complex «covers» women in different periods of life, depending on the circumstances. Some – already after 20 years, others – after 30-40. What does he represent? If you express three words – «My train is gone!». They say, nothing already in this life shines, and all the best behind. Dance at a party – not according to the status, dress fashionable – not by age, from the heart to laugh, have fun and create sorrower nonsense – too late and generally ridiculous. In fact, age is just the state of the soul. Live not yesterday – today. Dream, laugh, throw out the forties, be yourself and do not be afraid to seem ridiculous. Life is one, no one will give.

• Cellulite
  

  As if beautifully did not sang the men to us that the intellect and the inner world of a woman are more important for them, we stubbornly convince ourselves that cellulite crosses all our advantages. In fact, a clear explanation about the reason for the appearance of orange peel has not yet given any scientist. Although versions are very much – from excess estrogen to abuse coffee with milk. Be that as it may, cellulite remains one of the main women’s complexes and one of the bottomless sources of profits for each beauty salon.

• Vile complex
  

  This complex may manifest itself in completely different forms: a sense of guilt in front of children, in front of relatives, in front of others. In the minds of every woman there is an ideal to which she seeks. Any deviations from the ideal create a fault complex – «I’m bad mother», «I am an inattentive wife» and pr. Comes sometimes before that when in no innocent woman is accused of any misdemeanor, she begins to hide her eyes and justify feeling guilty for what he did not. How to be? First, it is understood that you can not please all. Secondly, learn to love yourself. This does not mean to become an egoist. And then stop jumping above your head and take more than you can carry.

• Complex «I have a disgusting character! No one can get along with me!»
  

  This complex stretches for us from childhood. «All in the Father!», «Well, character!», «How do you get married to marry!» and pr. As a result, we are unbearably suffering from our emotionality, stubbornness, quick-temperedness or excessive fattyness. We are trying to change themselves from the futility of these attempts fall into depression. What to do with this complex? And whether you need to do something at all? If this complex will significantly spoil your life, others suffer from you, and you are from your own, that is, it makes sense to work on real shortcomings, exclude imaginary, as well as go through the course of psychological trainings. And if this complex is present only in your head, and your «bad character» annoying a couple of colleagues and a grumpy relative, then you need to change the situation, but your attitude to it.

• Complex «I don’t need anyone». In the Same Series – «No one will love me», «Everyone throws me» and pr.
  

  Roots complex – Again, from childhood. It is based on the complex of inferiority, and is complemented by a complex of guilt. Leads to such a phenomenon in childhood, lack of attention and participation from parents. In the process of growing, the acute desire of attention to itself is becoming a controversial conclusion – «something wrong with me», «I’m probably unworthy of attention». As a result, an attractive adult, in every sense, the woman who took place could not arrange a personal life. Because she initially considers unworthy love and subconsciously hiding from her. Men feeling uncertainty and «weirdness», either, on the contrary, explicit desire «find at least someone», Smashed in different directions. If this problem is so serious that the life spoils you, it makes sense to turn to a psychologist. And direct your strength to find self-confidence. Even on the Internet on this topic today there are a lot of useful literature.

What are the complexes, and whether it is necessary to get rid of them?

Any complex is a kind of internal limiter. Barrier that hinders our victories and successes. Lack of faith. But before starting to struggle with the complexes, you need to clearly understand – these are really complexes, and not anything else. We must not forget that we are all different. If the girl keeps his virginity before the wedding is not a complex, but its life principle. And if your friends are called to a nudist beach, and you do not want – this is also not a complex, and your position you have the right to. In what cases we are talking about the complex? For what signs to recognize it?

• Regular experiences (up to stress and depression) due to the peculiarities of appearance or their behavior.
• Frequent (permanent) accusation of yourself (or others) in injustice.
• Permanent feeling of stiffness When evaluating your work (actions) outsiders.
• Anxiety and fear Before important meetings, negotiations.
• Constant accusation in all sins and failures anything in your character or appearance.
• Regularity in the breaking of relationships (in love, in friendship, at work). Relationships always spoil suddenly.
• Your confidence in improper upbringing You are your parents.
• Subconscious (straight) desire for ideal, which you never achieve.
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  Confidence that you have nothing to love. Or in the fact that you are not capable of.

Is it worth dealing with complexes? If they interfere with you, definitely – yes. If they do not affect your life, then leave them with you – let them become your «Highlight».