How men belong to virgins actually?
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Throughout its existence, society changes. Many of the foundations and rules undergo transformation. The attitude to virginity also changed significantly if it was compared to what it was, for example, in the Middle Ages and what it is now. As a result, it turns out that if the attitude to virginity used to be extremely clear, today it is very diverse and many will disagree in view of this.
Attitude to virginity then and now. What changed?
In patriarchal cultures, a male model of relations was dominated, where virginity significantly increases the value of the future partner. The virginity of the potential partner allowed to reduce the feeling of anxiety and a sense of inferiority of a man. Between men in the same community (tribe) existed competition. And therefore in society, where, in addition to sexual attractions, such emotions were dominated as fear, envy and anger the possibility of possessing a woman who had not yet beloned to anyone was very important and significant. Such installations are still preserved in orthodox religious communities, including Muslim, where requirements for «Immptious» and «loyalty» Married is still very high.
For modern European and American society, such a concept as chastity, preservation of virginity before the wedding has long been moral «Atavism», Research past. For Russia, it is characteristic of phlegmatic to adhere to enough free looks in this matter. That is, do not condemn, but also not to praise. Intention to maintain or not to maintain virginity before marriage is considered to be a personal matter of everyone.
Why men love virgins?
The question of the relationship of men to virgins today is quite complex and very, very unambiguous, as well as the attitude of girls to their own virginity.
If you follow the discussion forum on the topic when girls lost their virginity, then it can be noted that the vast majority broke up with innocence under the age of 16. Those who lost their virginity in 16-18 are much less than those who have lost her after 18 very little.
It often happens that girls over 18 years old are alarming that they are already enough adults and is already late enough. In any case, girls who would like to take care of innocence quite a bit.
This is due to the fact that men today rarely give preference to virgins. For a number of certain reasons. The arguments in favor of virgins are significantly less.
There is a certain category of men who are very pleased to hear from the girl with whom they meet about the fact that she is a virgin. This generates certain confidence in relations and respect for the girl. For many, this is a witness of devotion and strengthens further relations. In such respects, everything usually goes on increasing. After all, people are not born with a rich sexual experience, and get it in the process of relationships. If for a partner a man’s virginity of his partner does not cause negative emotions. This means the willingness to receive sexual experience together.
For many, the girl’s virginity is a positive moment in the sense that before that the girl had no other experience and she could not compare. If the guy had an experienced partner, she compared it in any case with previous. Therefore, the virgin will compare only it in the process of developing their sex life.
Another argument in favor of the virgin is that such a girl can be taught by their sexual preference. But most of all the men speak, unfortunately, the fact that there is a certain difficulty for them to make relations with virgins.
Why don’t some men love virgins?
Naturally, getting your first sexual experience The girl can not always be liberated, sensual, passionate. All this most often comes with experience. Therefore, a man who wants to receive only sexual satisfaction from sexual intercourse is unlikely to make news about the virginity of his girlfriend. After all, it suggests that the first time can be painful not only with physiological, but also from a psychological point, view. And if a man in himself is not sure or does not have enough of his own experience, which would help make the first sex experience of the girl enjoyable, he won’t want to take on a similar responsibility.
For interpretation with a virgin, patience is needed and the desire to make a compromise. This may not afford not every man.
There is still a category of men who are interested in the connection with experienced partners. This contributes to the increase of his own experience and reduces its responsibility for good luck and failure in sex. Such responsibility is mainly not his partner.
For some men, sex is more physical unloading. So men will also not be interested in virgin. After all, they need to be more careful, and they need to be men and immediately. Beauty, sexuality, experience and all this in one bottle.
Therefore, the fact that girls lose their virginity in adolescence and the cup of all with peers is no longer surprising.
The price of virginity or when it really is better to get rid of, and when to save?
The answer to this question should be the first to serve that the girl should be primarily ready for this and physiologically and psychologically. Very often on the decision to lose virginity gives society. Therefore, the girl may have fear that everyone learns that she is not a virgin that she will not accept such. Because virginity most often ridiculed, and no one wants to give a reason for ridicule.
To solve virginity can influence girlfriends who have already happened and who are already talking about it so much, and you still have nothing. But in charge, many are inclined to embellish, especially in such things. In reality, everything can look much different. Secondly, you are individual and your first experience will differ from the experience of girlfriends. What does not cost such issues so this is a hurry and speakers.
Real men’s reviews about virgin and attribute to virginity
On the Internet, the opinions about virgins from real men also differ. so, What do men think about virgins:
I treat well. After my virginity himself was lost, I didn’t want to deal with the virgin, as already written above, long with them «mess up» (I immediately apologize to the female audience and please do not consider it a reason for action)))) However, when I met my future wife did not stop me))).
For men who are tuned to one-time sex, virginity is bad. For long-term tidies – good. To exclude the opportunity to run into «deflorator», You can put the condition «first marriage, then sex», it is permissible and right enough.
If the guy is the same age, then he does not need an inexperienced virgin. Interest in more experienced girls.
SUPERSKY PERFIED … it is clear that technically sex with a virgin or not a virgin in principle no difference (well, just a couple of nuances no more..)
marry such =)
Practice to this normally t.To. There is a chance to find here untouched, which can be your half forever . I don’t even understand what to be afraid here .
Do not take care of virginity. I heard how many times: I got a girl and he … and .TD. Virginity appreciate only flawed men. Normal man appreciates woman. It is necessary to try many men that would choose your own with whom you will have the real harmony. Then you will receive true satisfaction from intimate relationships.
As for attitudes towards virgins, there are no special differences for me. It is just a physiological need of a person. And when she comes in 14 or 20 each individual..if she is 20 and she’s a virgin to condemn or praise it, it’s not for us, then she drives it in his own way, and if she has 14 and she wants sex, it means that she does not have the right and condemn her.As for the main issue, I personally be the first to be nice …Even despite certain difficulties …)))
I’m what I will say: Sex to marriage in modern society is acceptable. When and who he happens the case is purely individual. Life is unpredictable. The main thing is never under any circumstances, tell your only one when it appears, how many partners have had before him, and most importantly, no details. Believe me – it can kill your relationship forever, regardless of the life of a joint life.
Girls, remember always: the first experience must go for you with minimal damage and the main thing about it takes care, because you still have a whole life ahead, and the first time you can leave very indelible impressions in a psychological plan. And if you are not sure in no case in a hurry.
And how do you feel about virgins actually?
