Why men lie women? Instincts and self-deception

Your man often lies you? How to understand the motifs of the men’s lies, understand what he wants? The reasons for which a man is lying, ways to overcome conflicts.

Actual topic and for those who are still found, and for those who have long been married. He says that everything will be fine, because worse than now can no longer be. He says that we will buy, we will go, build, give births to three or five, but, unfortunately, does not even do the necessary.

Reasons forging men lie

Why are men lying? Why they do not speak honestly: «I do not love you», do not tell where they and with whom are trying to compose as much as possible and embellish, turning their lives into some kind of dishonest, harmonious, wrong tinsel? And most often it turns out that we can’t even directly ask your loved one and get a specific answer from him. He is twisted, as already in a frying pan, and very rarely responds in detail and clearly.
Men declare in one voice that we, women, forced them to compose Three main items:

1. Men know well that women want to hear, so they do not speak directly – «I do not love you» or «I do not want to go to you». They begin to tell the bikes to not offend us. Well, for example: a tired man came from work, got into his favorite chair. And he is fine here, he has a point of comfort, neither to the right, nor left to the left, thoughts settled, the pain released, the experiences were gone. And at that moment the beloved woman calls and begins to blame him that he does not call, does not come, he does not write, and still a bunch of everything. Well, can not be a man to gain strength and tell her: «Favorite, I just don’t want to go anywhere, I’m too lazy to gather and leave the house, I don’t want to stand in traffic jams, I want to simply sow on the sofa and relax alone without you». And even if the woman gather and come to him, he will see what state he is, the fact that – to kill him now? Men argue that women are simply not ready to take a gray palette of life, therefore it has to compose.
2. Sometimes men lie in order, So that the woman did not feel the disadvantaged and unhappy until time. Therefore, if a man has gathered to break the relationship and leave, he is lying around for some time at once – and the former beloved, and the current. And these poor women live in their illusions, understanding well that they are not like the truth. And each of them continues to cling to this lies, because the truth does not want to take. Here are men and say that as long as something with a woman connects me, I will lie.
3. Some Men Lgut From self-preservation feeling. They say they say, I will not drink, because I have gastritis, I’m driving or something else. Because a person just does not want to drink and he needs to come up with a realistic argument. Many men say: «I don’t like this boring and gray reality, so I am inventing myself this other parallel bright life to forget».

It often happens so that we, women, breaking into the life of a man, deprive him of their own comfort. After all, he had his own life to our appearance. There were friends, and sports, he walked on hockey, in a bath or fishing. And now you are! Your enchanting appearance can be described as follows: «Favorite, now you will have everything different! We will be together always and everywhere». Here is a man and you have to get out, and when he always reproaches non-once, he really begins to brew. It seems, and does not lie, but at the same time you won’t get the truth.

What to do a woman who wants to know the truth and only the truth

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  Drink Valerian Before you ask all your questions.

• Do not imagine that today you will get exactly the portion of all truth, which you can take. Usually what you can not «digest» man and gives portions. Only here it turns out somehow in sadistically, as if you don’t cut off the tail from pity, but in parts.
• If you want to get a specific answer to a direct question – remember: Most likely you will not like it! This is because we always want to hear exactly what we want to hear, and the truth, unfortunately, most often happens bitter.

How to determine that a man is lying?

Women’s intuition rarely when it fails. In addition, only us, women, characterize microwomanic face. Anyway, a man who was suspected of lying, is hardly able to open. Especially, if you arm the prompts, to which first of all pay attention, if it seems to you that your favorite is lying:

Speech. When a person is lying, it is accompanied by:

• heavy breathing;
• blinking;
• nervous cough;
• Zoo, stuttering;
• The appearance of droplets sweat.

Geasticulation

• fussiness (Looking out non-existent sarations, rubbing the nose, hands);
• anxiety (nervous knocking legs on the floor, clicking fingers);
• avoid visual contact;
• limitation and uncertainty in movements.

Interaction

• Protective position when talking;
• Attempts to leave from under a direct look, which a liar brings discomfort. A man climbs on the table, the back of the chair, actually hiding behind it;
• Lit unconsciously will build between him and the barrier From foreign items: cups, fruit, books and t.NS.

It’s only a minimum of tips from the series «How to find out that a man is lying». However, even if you catch it on lies, it is most likely to be easier for you. Most often, people make a desire to learn the truth not even on the fifth and sixth place in the degree of importance. We don’t really want to know what truly happens among the power of it, which will be there with an enna wave of the crisis, and we have no desire to delve into all oil and gas lazies. Just also happens with a woman who wants to stay with his beloved man to the latter! She will be waiting for a lie as a gift, sick, that the search for truth can put a cross on everything. But as soon as the woman begins to look for real evidence of treason and lies, searches the bedside tables, the car and personal belongings, digging in the phone and online correspondence, collects women’s hair from sitting and jacket – she looking for arguments for which you can cling to divorce or once again tell your man what is bad.
What other causes of male lies exist? Let’s go back to our reality and remember promise politicians. For what they promise? True, so that we chose them. So in our case. Crystal locks and lies appear when A man really wants to achieve his goal.
What goals?

1. Your property, movable and real estate. A man will promise you a lot only to have what you have.
2. He may just want a commissar body – And that’s all clear. Many men broadcast such beautiful stories before and disappear forever immediately after that.
3. He hangs noodles on your ears because it believes in it. For some reason very often we perceive other people’s dreams as promises given to us. The most interesting thing is that, perhaps, all his embodied dreams will get another woman, and not you. It was just his dreams.

When a man promises a lot and builds crystal locks, then most often he It is now that you can not provide you with all that you need. And find what you need, and there is its main task. If you are a household, then it will dream of the color of the petunitions that you put in the house you build, and about seven of your children. If you are traveler, you will look at the Internet on the Internet, what are the different religions and what wonderful palaces built on other ends of the earth. But you go there or not … Question.
Where all these promises are reversed in a month and a half?! Among this huge flow of words and dream, you suddenly understand that everything you promise is promised to perspect.
After all, one who works a lot, perfectly understands how hard everything needs it gets. The one who works is cautious and does not chat in the emptiness right and left, to not be the case for reproach. The one who wants to fulfill his dreams will give them embodied as a surprise. The one who works is inhabitants not to smooth out, he will surprise and give it as an achievement. It turns out that the more the man promises, the more you need to be afraid. The more he undesidessevantly gives at the beginning, the more he will take with mental injuries and insults. You need to understand well

what for everything that is given simply and on credit, You will have to pay Stydoroga. If a man tells you: «I will do everything yourself, you don’t need to do anything for this» – Fuck it. Because when the dreams have at least some kind of platform, the word most often sounds «we», «US», «together».
Conclusion is simple: Our greatest fears are usually associated with any expectation. therefore Best of all – that man who does not promise nothing, but does.