About how easy it is to dilute a woman for money, or take care of alphonses

Take care of Alphonsees! Real advice, how to see the Alphonse in the ear in time and warn ourselves from mental suffering and material losses in the future

At all times there were men, with great pleasure living due to weak gender. In modern society, recently, this phenomenon has become not just common, but popular. And one who thinks that the victim of Alfons is necessarily a rich lady in a solid age, deeply mistaken. Today it does not matter whether the age nor the external data of the woman nor the status nor, all the more, its profession. What you need to know about alphonses? How to calculate them? And how they bred women for money? When a man is just obliged to pay for a woman?

What men become alphonses?

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  Pezii.
  A man who moved on a number of reasons to another city. Has neither work nor housing nor friends. Of course, he is looking for a better life. And, of course, he wants everything at once and, clear, not at his own expense. The easiest way to be awarded on the fragile women’s neck, using the naivety the situation or loneliness of the lady at the age.

• Player.
  Each potential victim for such an Alphonse – horse at racing. Excitement that begins to bright in the blood – incomparable with nothing, and future «prizes» Pleasantly circling his head. Such an Alfons is extremely gentle at the beginning of dating and hard when parting. Read, how to survive parting with your loved one.
• Little husband.
  This man simply does not want to look for any work at all. It is convenient for him to live at the expense of spouse, lying on the sofa for many years. And even ask her little things to be a beer for him is not amazing. The reasons for which a married man turns into an Alphonse can be a lot. But the main is the excessive concern for him wives, modern women’s «habit» – take everything on yourself, and congenital infantilism in the male character.
• Alphonse from nature.
  

  Such an alphonse is raised from the diaper. Already in childhood, he feels that the world is spinning around him, and the mother breaks down in a cake, if only he was good – it fits, feed, wash the dishes, sucks on a free place on the bus, although herself stands with heavy bags, and. Disrespect for a woman is brought up in such a man since he does the first step. Well, then – everyone knows: what has grown, it has grown.

How to calculate Alfons – special signs

What to draw attention to what to understand – you are not in love with the cavalier, and the same disreactious «prince» with zeros in the eyes? For what signs these same alphonses are calculated?

• Appearance. Chief Trump Alfons. He should look impeccable, dress stylish, smell nice.
• Manners. Alphonse is polite, helpful and attentive. He will always give you a hand leaving the transport. Open car door. Interest in well-being. Pull the chocolate from the pocket at the very moment when you want to horror as you want sweet. From his courtesy, a woman (as expected) should lose self-control and his head.
• Alfons slowly but right gives a potential sacrifice from her relatives and friends. Extra witnesses to him, as well as the influence of unauthorized persons on his sacrifice.
• Gigolo understands you better favorite girlfriend. He is interested in how your day went. He participates in your hobbies and hobbies. Watering your flowers, washes dishes and puts napkins under the plates.
• Gigolo Located in constant «Search» Work. Either declares that he is worth more than while offering him. Although actually work he is not going to go at all. Or he just laziness to look for her.
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  Gigolo constantly forgets at home (in the car, etc.) Your wallet. He seemed to happen to be money at the very moment when it urgently needs to pay for purchases, an account in a restaurant or a ticket in a cinema. There is still such an option as «Temporary financial difficulties», which become constant. The third option: as soon as the moment comes in a row, he comes to my mobile «very» important call.

• Alphonse is very Often (of course, embarrassed, with a thousand apologies) asks for you. Amounts are usually small. Naturally, you consider money back for yourself low and unworthy. Or he successfully forgets about his debts, and you do not consider it right to remind them.
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  Right before the holiday you suddenly A quarrel happens. From nothing, in the same place. Of course, in a day or two you will make up, but a gift, it seems like, you can not give. Agree, economy.

• Gigolo constantly flatters. You are for him – a sultry female dream of a poet, ideal, goddess, aphrodite and muse in one person. Forky confessions and compliments roll on you, like a horn of abundance. You are happier all in the world. And I did not even expect that someone could love you like this, and so you can sing your not such a smooth legs, very dull hair, the first breast size and tired eyes under glasses of glasses.
• Alfons even can make you an offer. Give you your huge ardent heart and hand. In this case, the variant of the development of events is two. First: you will feed breakfast, pulling the moment of weddings for many months, and then years. Will ask about what roses you want at the wedding cake, will talk about the journey to which you will be lucky. And show the rings in the jewelry department, one of which you will definitely buy as soon as there are money. Second option: Wedding will be organized. Certainly gorgeous, for all canons. But at the time of payment on accounts, suddenly there will be difficulties with the work, money will be lost from the safe, or the business partner will be «Latest bastard». Of course, he will be against everything you pay! But, having grown a little, still agrees – you are now one family.
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  Gigolo does everything so that your self-esteem fell to zero, but Complexes, On the contrary, grown. So that you thank heaven for the fact that such a handsome man descended to such a gray mouse. Artificially created situations will gradually told your faith in yourself. As a result, you are aware that they are ready not only to holy and cherish it, but also to contain, if only he was near.

• Gigolo practically nothing talks about yourself. But about you he knows everything. Starting with your salary and ending the cost of family jewels in your box, which once have to lay to cover «Sudden huge debts».
• If Alfons still decided to tell about himself, then most likely you will hear Heartzdiye Hard Childhood In the boarding school, about sick parents or evil subsidies, which left him without a penny in his pocket.
• Gifts from Alphonse you get only at the start of your relationship. As soon as you get on his fishing rod, his material status is enough for a maximum of chocolate and ice cream in the park.
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  He is much younger than you. And looking at yourself in the mirror, you (in the depths of the soul) you understand that it is not for the sake of your inner world, he sings the diffilams and wears you on the hands. Although, you must admit, there are exceptions here. Alfons can be older than you. And, again, love all ages are submissive. Very often today there are couples in which women are much older than their chosen. So listen to the heart, but also watch not forget.

• Gigolo Without the revelation of conscience, it will move to you immediately, as soon as your novel creates. Simple, inhales, with a suitcase and toothbrush. Or with a leaning heart story about how he left just for you for your spouse and an apartment, just to be able to breathe with you one air.

What are Alphonsees and how to distinguish them?

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  Gigolo.
  Does not hide his mercenary intentions. Chooses ladies who deliberately buy love for themselves.

• Alphonse resort.
  Everything is simple here. Acquaintance on the beach with charming local macho, walk under the moon, crazy sex (most likely), sharing phones and addresses, dinner for two. But he forgot the money at home, and pay bills you. And for his phone number no one will answer you.
  And at its address other people live.
• Alphonse Sprinter.
  Such an Alfons can take you quite a long time. Month or two, even six months. And all for the sake of one goal – to outstand with you a large amount and disappear forever. The reasons are usually very primitive: there is not enough money to pay housing in two months, for a loan, on the funeral of the beloved Troyochny Uncle, etc.
• Alfons-Styer.
  The «subspecies» will not ask you so much a large amount. And it will not even disappear. Because it is not in his plans at all. And his plan is one: charm you so so that later «lose» work and live at your expense long and happy.
• Alfons-Scherist.
  This type should be fear if you really have something to lose. Hardly time to charm you, he already drags you into the registry office, while you stay in love fever. But the reason for the divorce appears immediately after the wedding. As a result, you lose not only your beloved husband, but also the Pol Apartments, the car and money that you were presented to the wedding.
• Alphonse in the telly cheer.
  This species usually fascinates women, not even leaving IR. Tearful and romantic letters, for which the prisoner mass of time, float the heart of a lonely lady in the blink of an eye. And even confuses even the number of domes on his chest, the term that will end in ten years, and the wedding behind the bars with witnesses in a police form. As a result, the prisoner gets a woman on regular dates (with whom, as you know, in prison tint), tea-smoking throughout the term, the ability to not work on the industrial zone and eat delicacies.

What if you met Alphonse?

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  Do not tell the first ongoing about your material situation. A week of dating – not a reason for an excursion in your apartment, a garage and jewel boxes.

• Feel free to ask about the personal life of Cavalera, about his profession, about the way of earning and pr. Splitness of answers (care from them) – reason to alert.
• Do not let me in debt. A real man solves its problems independently.
• Do not demonstrate your payment options Accounts in restaurants and cafes. Or pay only for yourself.
• Do not invite a man to live to yourself. And even better – do not meet in your territory.

How Alphonse is bred women for money

Alphonse methods are usually the same. Traditional scheme:

• Creating your own Ideal image (Business man, businessman and pr.).
• Putting out bait: Woman sees a successful, gorgeous man.
• Creating Style.
• Charming woman, Promises of manne of heaven and stars from the sky. Perhaps even a wedding.
• Sharp «Falling shares», Business loss, dismissal, theft and pr. In general, there is no money and not foreseen, «what to do, love?!»
• The result can develop in two schemes: He takes a large amount of debt and disappears, either climbs into your neck, cuts the legs and lives in his pleasure.

If you understand that you are Alfons, that is, only two ways. Immediately part, Saving nerves and money, or continue to support this illusion of love. Only you need a man who will throw you right away as soon as you find yourself on the mel?