Love for all ages
Young lover in a mature woman – how to treat it, evil it is or good, and how such relationships can end?
Adult Woman’s Love Union with a young lover now do not surprise anyone. And if you look at love with different sides, which is a connection with a big difference in age?
Today even «marry» on yourself a man who underfly for fifteen years and more ladies can be easily and fast. More and more modern specials take an example from stars of show business who do not see any problems in such a connection.
For example, once a love couple Elizabeth Taylor and Larry Ortongski with a difference at the age of 30 existed for five years, and no one no matter what his own «Labor feat» Larry received a $ 800,000 cash actress in the testament.
Yes, sometimes people only associate money. Too often for public opinion on such relations, the argument is obvious: «She spends money on him, he lives on her provision and pays her love for it».
She buys him dear gifts: cars, apartments, he pays her sex, mutual understanding, an emotional explosion of passion, which she missed in his life.
But for such unequal relations, love is not alien.
Why men like older ladies?
Unions «May-December», For many, this is usually, the more not only the mistress in age, but also the young people see in such relationships a lot of advantages. Lover, often attracts sexy experience of a woman.
A mature woman with age blooms from bud in a rose, immediately changes a lot, here you can list a lot:
- Appearance – the forms that are so like young are developing;
- Increased synthesis of female pheromones, which act as a drug;
- experience contributes to the transformation of a guy in a real macho.
It happens differently: the lack of maternal love forces it to look for her in more mature age. The man is trying to find «Mommy» at 17 and even for 30 years, and who will give him maternal love like no ladies in adulthood?
The attitude has changed «unequal» Param, so for modern guys age today for sex – this is just a convention, just extra numbers.
Of course, you do not need to bother with a mature lady, it will not be necessary to fill with flowers, amazing romantic «nitainers». Yes, and on «Kisses», «Hugs», «Umilyashchi» Do not have to spend money like a young special. Adult woman most often almost undemanding, but the junior partner is always under her wing.
Mature never looks at the lover as an object for marriage. It is filled with enthusiasm and tenderness, still enough ditch and is ready only for a romantic relationship.
She does not need to give birth to children, engage in common life. And surrender free relationship, She can feel a love feeling without difficulties, unnecessary problems that will be murderent for their romantic communication.
And, if we talk about the mercenary motives, it turns out even very simple: the woman of mature age will never bother on the expensive gifts lover. And why refuse, sin does not take advantage? True, here from such relations somehow it becomes quite sad in the soul.
Why women stretch to young men?
See what a woman looks like, who has a young lover. Sold down young love «an object» can be recognized for kilometer. Not only shine in the eyes changes, sometimes even an externally woman seems to be blossoms. And it all becomes unimportant irony: «You need to knit grandchildren at this age, and not on heels to jump».
And if the woman does not look at her age, but looks younger, her appearance remains attractive and after 40 years? And I do not want, I don’t want to think about grandchildren at all.
Today, a woman sometimes even in 50 years old looks better and sexier than 25 year olds. Because modern life is so diverse, so many opportunities, even care for it becomes easier.
Mature age woman does not want to dwell on a man, and the reason for her diverse life. Yes, and female sexual peak falls at age after 35 years old, men’s – at 25. Therefore, even medicine explains everything.
Even if behind the shoulders of several marriages, she gets tired of marriage, but less often from the men themselves. Young lover can give a woman a lot of positive effects. Mood and love can make a woman energetically, easy to rise, because even problems can seem like such trifles when you are in love.
Another item – sex. More often in marriage at this age for the lady, this is only a marital debt, first of all its role – this is a wife, hostess, mother. The young lover is able to return not only «First youth», But remember that she is still a woman.
Young lover is hormonal therapy For mature woman, which in such respects helps always in the morning to be beautiful and fresh.
Unfortunately, the public opinion on the ladies who do not put a cross in adulthood, ambiguously. But when a man buys a bike in 50 years, puts on himself «Kuratu», and «Brasses his bald», Nobody laughs over them. It turns out, then the man just begins to live a normal, full-fledged life.
When the mature female nature has its own circle of interest, she is engaged in sports, not only living with household problems, then she truly lives his life. And the image of it will always remain attractive for any man.
Is there any future in such a couple?
If the difference in life experience between lovers is not critical, you can try to extend such relationships.
Yes, it will be difficult, you need to stay yourself and not be afraid to part.
If you decide to spend your time on a young man, you can use some tips:
- Do not go to the bribe, the appetites in humans grow in geometric progression. Yes, and not all the men Alphonsees, they know how to be offended on expensive gifts, they can humiliate any of your step in this direction. Some will expect sincereness from you, and False will simply fall out of them;
- It will be wrong to argue with a man all the time, only because you are more experienced and older. Not always a young lover is ready to see in you indulgent mom. Believe it as an adult and quite an equal partner;
- About jealousy to young rivals talk even somehow stupid. You yourself decided on such a step, let him admire the young body on health, beautiful girls. Men always remain men, they will not redo them, even at 70 years;
- But it will be necessary to look like a young man for all one hundred, always stay sexual and attractive. And be ready for the fact that every day it will be more difficult.
Difficulties and disadvantages
Probably a young lover with the bad that young. It will be difficult to get rid of the syndrome «Mommy». It will hard to keep love relationships with a young lover if the difference is off. Probably, in this case, a major role will play a monetary guarantor.
Love Communication should be very rapid in this case, it will be necessary to part before the young lover will begin to be given.
You are an adult matron, no one forces you to grow old, but look back, around – there are mature men who can be interesting. Maybe it’s better to pay your attention to them?
Probably difficult to condemn such a connection, especially when the lady is happy in it. It does not matter by and large, whether you sincerely feel, perhaps it is very good. Or maybe there is just a contract work – people agreed. We do not condemn them. Very often in such respects, still there is mutual understanding, dedication, attention, care, even even if only on one side.
Well, one of them in such an alliance is still happy! Feelings with age do not go to nowhere, the heart remains always in the same place.