How to recognize the ideal of a man?
If you are alone and unsuccessfully looking for a prince on a white horse, think about whether you are worthy of the ideal and are not waiting for the weather by the sea, hoping for a happy case to meet a gorgeous man
Who in childhood did not dream to meet the prince on a white horse, who will take with him in the distant edges and make the Royal? Many girls, even coming out of young age, continue to hope for a meeting with an ideal man.What is it?
Each different draws in the imagination. Beautiful image: Facial features, shape, manners, voice.
As for the psychological characteristics, such wishes will usually sound: let him be kind, cheerful, responsive, responsible and strong.
Why are we looking for a prince?
If you are one of those who are not exchanged on trifles, it is worth asking yourself why for you so important to find the ideal?
Most likely, you will check the courting of unlucky cavaliers, because one ugly, the second is not enough smart, the third and insensitious chubban and a snap. Perhaps one of these guys could make you a beautiful game, and really loves you, but it does not get the slightest chance, because the picture from dreams and reality did not coincide.
Why the perfect man can be so wore in the heart that does not leave places for ordinary guys from the next street? There is several reasons:
- The girl was so raised by her parents, they pesterly declared what was the perfect man should be, and they assumed the idea that such a princess would not get to the first oncoming;
- The father of the girl was always for her unshakable authority, and his character, habits, manners were in her head in the quality of an ideal man; But the exact copy of the dad is not easy to find, so the adult young lady continues to be pepper in the guys around;
- fears and indecision, unwillingness act can create a cover in the form of an eternal search for a prince on a white horse; It is much easier to memorize an excuse «my perfect man has not appeared on the horizon yet», what to get out of the house, get acquainted and communicate.
In the search for your beloved without flaws there is nothing wrong until time. If you do not dwell on the fact that the candidate for husbands should one hundred percent to meet the image created in fantasies, but only to use the ideal in the form of a certain reference, then the dreams will not be on the way of healthy relationships.
That we are looking in guys?
What are the qualities of the perfect man? What he is, prince on a white horse? Do not talk about the peculiarities of appearance and apparent characteristics, such as politeness or erudition.
The rules of etiquette is easy to learn if desired, but the inner inconsistencies, laid by nature and upbringing, much more difficult to change.
If you spend a survey, asking different women to voice the description of the perfect man, we will hear different stories. Nevertheless, you can select common moments. Let’s look at what distinguishes «His» With a capital letter from many ordinary guys who do not fall into the category «man of dreams».
Listening skills.
For any woman it is very important that her satellite was ready to listen and understand what she is saddened or what is rejoiced. Many holders receive «From the gate turn» due to the fact that too focused on their own person and forget to ask the girlfriend, how she passed her day, what she thinks about what plans is building. And vice versa, give a woman a little sincere attention – and she will go to the edge of the world.
He compets and supports.
It’s not enough to hear about the problems of your beloved, it is equally important to resolutely help her in a difficult minute and the word and the case. Relationships are checked in difficult times – during the crisis in the country, health problems, work or family troubles of one of the partners.
In these moments, the couple may fall apart, because the girl did not receive due support where it was waiting for her hope. Is there a description of the perfect man bypassing the decisiveness and courage of the cavalor? Of course not. From the guy are always waiting for the ability to make decisions, reasonably risk and take on the blows of fate.
Special vision of the future.
Charismatic volitional strategist – so you can describe your husband able to send a family ship by the right course. Unless you want to be close to a person who does not have clear goals and the plan to achieve them? Women love those who radiate confidence about a joint future pair. It concerns both professional development, and plans for the expansion of living space, and, of course, dreams of joint children.
How hard it happens to part with a partner who decided to change their lives alone, without having enlisted consent and support of his beloved. Even worse, if the incompatibility of interests, goals and life values has discovered after the wedding. It is very important to speak key plans and the principles of living together before marriage, otherwise the perfect picture can completely crumble, and change something will not be easy.
«No» Manipulations and desire to change a woman.
The one who sincerely loves, will not climb out of the skin, to influence the behavior of the partner. He takes her as it is, with all the characteristics of the character and even the fad.
It is comfortable and easy with him, because you can relax and enjoy life without going to fear to be convicted or ashamed.
Little who wants, so that they constantly disappeared, managed, indicated how to do. Therefore, now most women are looking for partnerships, and not authoritarian self-masses. Want to win a girl? Every day, in any situation, show respect for her feelings, thoughts and solutions!
Thus, the question of which should be the perfect man, you can answer briefly: not wealth, appearance or status paint representatives of a strong half of humanity, and their character, willpower, excerpt and kindness.
You can not be an oligarch, but to stay sensual, gentle, purposeful guy who is attentive to the needs of beloved. And the relationship with him will seem perfect, because everything is satisfied with both partners.
Reverse situation: While in a golden cage without attention, caress and respect, any beauty will quickly wake up, it lures it and will break through the will, away from the rich Tirana.
What to do to meet it?
So, you clearly know what you want from the relationship and from the guy. But at the same time remain in proud loneliness, so far and not finding your prince. What to do to speed up the search, make them more productive?
To begin with, calm down – if you know what you want, – this is half success.It is important to take two settings:
- If you are looking for a prince, be yourself worthy of His Majesty;
- Do not sit by the window in anticipation that love will appear from behind the corner, we have active searches, expanding the circle of friends.
If you want to conquer the heart worthy in all respects of the cavalier, take care to be at the height.
What do you think he must choose you? What is special for you to see you?
Strive for perfection, fight with your egoism and bad habits, all the time study something new, get an interesting hobby, move along the career stairs, in the end, take care of yourself and your appearance.
If you dream that the man most worthy in the world took a place close to you, it is worth thinking about the ideal.
A common mistake of many dreamers – wait by the sea by the Sea, without taking any action to achieve your goal to successfully marry. Imagination draws gorgeous paintings, be deceived by illusions for a very long time. But time goes, girlfriends are married for less brilliant, but quite real guys, they give birth to children and live quite happily.
It is worth thinking whether there are enough active social life or completely relied on the will of the case? If doubts arose, you need to think about where you are in addition to work and how you can change your habits.
Here are some options for how to diversify your classes, and there before meeting with the ideal not far:
- Sign up for group dance classes;
- Learn to ride snowboarding or skiing;
- Start taking pictures of people, nature, events around them.
And remember: the ideal relationship is a joint life filled with warmth, care, mutual assistance and understanding. The main thing is to partners comfortably with each other. This is the perfect love.
