Who next to you is a real man or Mamienkin Son?

Causes and signs that man is Mamenkin Son. Learn how to determine the mamnye son, what to do a woman with this phenomenon. Husband – Mamienekin Son: Will you be able to change the situation?

Your image of the perfect, the best thing is for each woman still in childhood. Much, one girl sees his future half of the macho from the coast of Italy, the other – the Russian borty, the third – a subtle-sensing knight, and. But each wants her man to be confident, courageous and strong. Read, who is a real man and what he should be able to do. Of course, when suddenly it turns out that your half – Mamienekin Son, a little joy. How to determine whether a man is a Mamienikin son, or he is just a caring son? And what to do if it is still the first option?

Who is Mamenkin Son?

Everyone knows that the relationship of the man and his mother is formed in childhood. Often Excessive guardianship It is the reason that the Son considers the main goal of his life – to thank mom for making it for him and in general for making. Such a sense of duty (often multiplied to the feeling «guilt») Of course, prevents the sown’s personal life. And, if with a career, such a infantile man, most likely, everything will be successful, then in a relationship with a woman will always be invisibly (and visible) to attend mom. Having invested in the child «all yourself», giving him «The best years of life», love, health and everything else, mom starts zealously protecting from everyone «predanits», Those who want to get it the treasure. Not even thinking about the consequences, such Mom interferes in any relationship of the Son, stigma shame all candidates and does not want to let go of a child in free swimming, Even if in his temples is already crying gray. Read: How to like the parents of the future husband – tricks for future daughter-in-law.

How to determine – is a man Mamenikin son or just a good son

Unlike just caring sons, Mamienekin Son always put mom on «pedestal», Idealizing it in every sense and maintaining a complete dependence on it.

• Mamenkin Son will be polite, Galanten and kind, but in his life You will never raise the step higher than you allowed – Because there is already a mother.
• Sissy constantly leads your mother to you as an example – «And my mother does so ..», «And my mother considers it nonsense», «And mom says what you need ..» and pr.
• Mom calls him regularly, not once a day, like he. And talk on the phone are not limited to – «how are you, hello, so far, everything is fine», And delay per hour or two.
• Mom such a man knows everything about himself and about every step. Including all the details of your life and secrets / intimate problems.
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  Mamienekin Son does not want to grow. He gladly takes the mother his dirty shirts if you did not have time to wash them. Capture my mother’s mamina cutlets, and not your lunch. Will advise on the account of the new work with mom, and not with you.

• In case of conflict between you and his mother He will always choose her side. because «This is my mom!».
• You will never become an ideal. Because the ideal already has. And you do not get to him, even if you become the best chef country and mistress of the year.
• Mamino desire or requirement such a man always performs instantly and without unnecessary stocking. Mom word – law. Even if you are already standing in front of the train waiting for the landing, and my mother suddenly ended activated carbon. Or when you started, finally, repair, and my mother needed to urgently update the wallpaper in her living room. The desire for it will be fulfilled, no matter how you hurt the leg, did not root and did not take offense.
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  Mamienekin Son does not like quarrels and conflicts. With no one. He is not used to conflict. Therefore, it will not be scandaling with you, and, at any cost, even grieved his teeth and almost blowing up from indignation.

• Even if you live separately from his mom, she probably lives nearby – You never know what ..

How to be if all the signs are your man – Mamienkin Son?

What to do if a man is Mamienekin Son?

• If you decide to associate your life with this person, get ready for the fact that You must be the best replacement of the golden hands of his mom.  See also: Relationships of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law – problems and solutions.
• Apply to him O «Three whales» Your family happiness: That is, he must respect you, do not make mother’s principles above your family, do not interfere with her life.
• Explain their position in advance – that You need a real man, and not a kiny lady.
• Try to solve all problems and questions in the family «in hot pursuit» – earlier than he will appeal for help to mom.
• Limit His Communication with Mom to the Maximum. As far as it’s possible. Not a requirement, but circumstances. Leaving to travel more often by turning off mobile phones. Watch out to live «Closer to the sea», because «there is better climate, and you have a weak health», and pr.
• If you have children – Leave it more often with the children of one. Let them learn for them to look after yourself.

If you can not change the situation and do not accept it, it makes no sense to make yourself noticing and hope that a man will grow up, or a mother-in-law will be lagging behind you. Collect things and leaving. If you really take an important place in his life, then he will do everything to return and fix the situation.