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Oh, these secretive men!

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Sometimes it is difficult to guess what men are on the mind: do you like him or it is absolutely indifferent. Girls should be very careful to correctly interpret the signals of the guys

Remember when we were small, then loved to represent that we have some kind of magical power. Someone dreamed of flying or becoming invisible, others – get super-power or skill teleport.

Oh, these secretive men!But one magical ability could really come in handy to us not only in childhood, but also in adult life is telepathy.

What a girl does not want to know that in the guy’s head? How without superpowers to understand if you like a new acquaintance, or if you are married, didn’t her husband?

Men are mysterious creatures, representatives of another planet, with whose psychology women understand not easy.

How to understand a man if he is silent about his feelings, in the life of the Little Surveillance and Surov? There are indirect signs of interest and sympathy, resentment and indifference. A wise woman from an early age studying the Azam reading signals from persons guys, in gestures, hints, phrase kips can make an idea of ​​true motifs that determine the actions of representatives of a strong half of humanity.

Love does not love

Unmarried rows, as a rule, most interested in what guys feel in relation to them? Can guess or tear the petals with chamomile, trying to calculate «loves or does not love, throw it or kisses», But much more efficient to look at the behavior of a young man.

How understand what you like a man? The guy in love is unlikely to hide his attitude for seven castles. Rather, he will finely hint on his interest.

Oh, these secretive men!Here are just some ways that the cavalier can signal, which is not indifferent:

  • offers his help, even if you did not ask for it directly;
  • Interested in your hobbies, mood, asks how you spent the time since the last meeting with him;
  • Carses all sorts of ways: serves a coat, offers the best place in a room or transport, brings to the house after a party or from work, makes little surprises, gives minor souvenirs;
  • It often looks like you straight into the eyes, smiles, Balagurt and laughs when you joke;
  • Whatever the company you are, in one way or another, it turns out to be next to you;
  • trying to find an excuse, to gently touch your hand, shoulders, hair – it says about many.

How to understand that the man loves if there are no obvious signals? It is possible that the subject of your interest on the ears is in love, but for some reason hides your attitude.

He could seem to be that your heart is employed by others, or he is not sure if reciprocity will meet, confessing in his passion. Since it is not easy to understand the attitude of a man, especially if he carefully hides the feelings from others, it will take patience and observation to «bring it on clean water».

Purpose – to declare Molchuna

Suppose, the guy’s interest is available, but «Partisan» intentionally hides his feelings. What can be done so that the secret has become apparent? How to understand what you like a man? To do this, spend a simple experiment, watch the reaction.

Here are some options like a lifelous paper allowing a woman to guess, is there any interest in it:

  • How to understand a man if he hides his thoughts? Come with some cavalier to a party where your experimental will be attended. It is absolutely necessary to expect a stick, let the partner only identify your presence: it cares beautifully, puts signs of attention, but does not bloom. It is important that the guy who really likes you felt the injection of jealousy, felt that you are successful at the opposite sex. Let it understand: if he does not hurry and does not show himself, he can miss the chance to be with you.
  • Now watch: the in love will not tolerate the presence of a third-party person next to you, will be nervous, make actions that will reveal it. How to understand that a man is jealous? He will talk and joke intentionally louder than usual, attracting your attention to himself, can be involved in a dispute or even a quarrel with «Sandage» Kavaler. In the end, be prepared for the fact that it is retracted under the first pretext, slamming the door. One way or another, but the behavior will give it to his head. But the stone calm chosenness, indifferently observing the fact that someone is near you, – a sign of indifference. And it is, in fact, not bad – it is better not to feed the illusions and look for a new object of love, than secretly hope that maybe a guy loves you, but hides the feeling.
  • Want to learn the right way to understand that a man loves? You can spend another, more radical experiment. Simple and without offensive invite him to date. Optionally, invent some kind of complicated reason, and it is completely contraindicated to hint at possible intimate relationships. Make sure that you have no one to go to an interesting event, and you thought about him.

The most innocent and at the same time interesting options that can be easily useful:

Oh, these secretive men!

  • Planning to go to classic dances, but you need a partner;
  • Want to visit the rink, have not worked on skates for a long time and moral support is needed;
  • An interesting exhibition opened, the most ride is lonely (perfectly, if the guy understands art, then you can refer to the fact that he will be able to give an expert assessment of the exhibited canvases);
  • have a friend (moms, brother, the rosulus sister – no matter) did not work out to go with you to the concert, the ticket disappears.

You can use these billets or invent a different reason. It is important that you are doing the first step and then look at the reaction. How to understand the attitude of a man? If he loves you, he will not be able to hide joy, because he was chosen in satellites.

He instantly agree, throwing all the other things, no matter how important they are. When you offer your company, stand and wait for the answer, the guy does not have time for meditation, so the first reaction will be the most natural and truthful.

How to understand what you like a man? What to do if this question does not give rest, and the rally, as you think, can turn over all my life? The answer is simple – be attentive, watch each trifle – movement, word, hint.

How to understand her husband?

Even in a long marriage, when, it would seem, the spouses know the habits of each other very well, the wife may have suspicions that her husband sobbed her. Manifestations of indifference can be very painful for spouses. How to understand her husband, if he began to intentionally linger at work, does not want to talk about the events of the day, it makes fault in the trifles and forever dissatisfied?

Try to think that it could become a true cause of such behavior. It is necessarily that the spouse changes you, found love on the side and plans to leave the family. This is an extreme that can only happen if the relationship has been strongly corrupted by constant quarrels, tapping and misunderstanding.

If, first, love and loyalty of her husband did not cause any doubts, then probably width and irritability became one or more of the reasons listed below:

Oh, these secretive men!

  • difficulty at work;
  • health problems;
  • accumulated over the years fatigue;
  • middle age crisis;
  • Rutin, lack of bright impressions;
  • increased responsibility for business, family;
  • lack of moral support from loved ones;
  • crisis in the country, uncertainty in tomorrow;
  • Financial instability and many-many other.

Could it happen that at some party or visiting you gave a spouse a reason to doubt your loyalty? How to understand that a man is jealous?

In addition to the transformation into Molchuna or Grown, it is most likely, he also will show all ways to show how unhappy with your behavior in society.

Jealousy – feeling capable of poisoning life to both partners, so it is desirable, as soon as possible, to overcome it, go through this doubtful stage of relationships. I sincerely talk to my husband, admit that you see his doubts and experiences, confound in baselessness of suspicion.

It is not necessary to be a telepath or a professional psychologist to guess whether a cavalier loves you or not, whether or is absolutely cold and indifferent.

Wise woman not only will be able to correctly interpret the behavior of the chosen one, but will make the necessary conclusions, flexibly adjusts the situation.

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