If a friend turned out to be suddenly … Exit from FRENDZON according to the rules and without

What is Frendzon and why such relationships are harmful to health? Learning to build relationships in which it is comfortable, and not to look for excuses to people you are not important

«Well, I need her so much. She, apparently, were more cases than my birthday..», «Nothing terrible that forgot me to meet. He is so busy ..» – Typical excuses of people who are looking for than to justify the ugly actions of their objects adoration.

If you see what was in Frendzone, or do not yet understand why you do not want to show friends, but at the same time they always call when you need to feed the cat, transport the sofa, set up a technique or simply «Swim into the vest», think about whether you need such relationships. Maybe it’s time to start living for yourself?

What forces people to be provided in such respects?

Relationships that are classified as «Friendship zone», have an important difference from the friendship of true. Friendzon is a kind of form of dependence in which one side uses the fact that another is ready to do everything, just to be near and feel useful.

Emotion exchange in this case is unequal. What it is threatening «Sacrifice» such relationships? The inability to build your life and relationships in which it will be comfortable in the future.

The reasons for which one person turns out to be in the Friend of the other, maybe several:

• fear of loneliness and not find your «Half»;
• unrequited love;
• social status;
• Unhealthy altruism;
• Unwillingness to be responsible for establishing their own life.

You can still look for reasons for a long time and try to find another excuse as those who manipulate the unfortunate and those who found themselves in such a dependence. But it is definitely impossible to call these relationships.

That is why at a certain stage of life is the best thing to do «Sacrifice» Such a relationship is to take action that it will help to get out of the incomprehensible phase of relationships – FRENDZON.

After all, a manipulator, as a true energy vampire, will definitely not get along with his victim. Let you not stop temporary «Thaw», when the lady of the heart will allow himself to kiss or take the hand, and the guy still agrees to a walk in the park, but only late in the evening, naturally.

Let’s break up friends ..

Imagine that you are determined and decided to clarify everything, tell you what you want more than being a nanny cat or even a child (yes, it also happens) while your Passia is trying to arrange a personal life. Perhaps you are tired of making a company only for a campaign to cinema, when no more with. How to make it not to get into this addiction again how to get out of Friends?

Perhaps resort to the most effective method of tested millennia, to pull out the root, cut off as a surgeon, this addiction.

If after your conversation you did not give a clear explanation, why so, not otherwise, and that you «As a brother, the same native», and such relationships you already in favor, just unfold and leave. Remove from the manipulator’s friends in social networks, and do not go to his page to take a look at one eye, how he / she suffers without you.

I would not want to upset you, but you will most likely see that nothing has changed anything in the life of this person. He still lays out Selfie and reports on where and when he met with friends. This behavior means only one thing – you are not so important in the life of a person, as you invented yourself.

Exactly. Tell me, how can you be friends after you poured the soul, and you are offered to stay at a distance and leave everything as it is? When a guy or a girl is offered, it is unlikely that they realize that it actually represents friendship.

These are not only inventive conversations, ambulance in solving all household problems and, it would seem, innocent requests «Pick up my boyfriend / girl at the wedding of friends».

Friends are always near – and in joy, and in sadness. Sometimes they don’t even need to explain anything. They will not manipulate you and all the more shy you.

Dynamo Machine or Dream Girl? How to understand?

On a variety of men’s forums, you can often find simple, but judging by the reviews, a very effective way to check whether the road is a girlfriend relations in which a man is with her. It does not matter whether she has a young man or she is just looking for a worthy, the Council acts in both situations.

Just just switch attention to another object. If the person who is not sensible to you will make you a remark, it will be possible to provoke it to the conversation and finally put everything in its place.

This recommendation is suitable for girls. Perhaps realizing how many Friend-Zone girlfriend did for him, or simply getting used to her society, a man will look like this relationship. But this Light version will still not be able to replace their full clarification. Therefore, if you set yourself such a task as a way out of Friends, you need to adhere to this solution and run from these uncomfortable and to some extent useless relationships for you.

How lucky your half!

Necessarily lucky, but only if you decide to spend your life with another person. And for this you need to first go. Do not suffer and do not suffer. Yes, it’s easy to say, do it – difficult incredibly! But for the mother, mom climbs so that you are always so cute or reliable «superhero», which will always provide help, both psychological and physical and financial.

It makes no sense to seek the reason for yourself when you were exploited for several months or years as an emotional receiver or representative «Rough male power» – bhawing, paint, move, but not more. It is said that a woman always needs the one who will love her while she is looking for who to love the most.

In the case of men, this is no less fair when he, as a true alpha-male, is chasing behind the slipping ladies and does not notice the one that he ever subjected to help the Council and tell me how to behave with women, but at the same time it does not apply that I wanted to become an ideal wife for him.

Do not be afraid to be lonely. Once in a situation of underage, to get out of which is worthy and so as not to be in the new Friend, a guy or a girl need to take a break. It is vital to bring thoughts in order, to understand what has real value for you.

It is perfectly helped with this to cope with new acquaintances, find that you can during the anti-stress travel, hike to rock concert or the theater, and even better – in the gym. Here you and dating flirting, and a slim beautiful body, and emotional discharge.

Remember always that emotional traps or traps cause only pain and give uncertainty in their own.

You want to be happy? Want to love you? Stay around. Perhaps it is now that you are watching the one who is ready not only to take your love and help, but and give it all to you.