Divorce during pregnancy – life continues
Divorce during pregnancy – the situation is unpleasant, but by no means unique, and, how to say, throwing emotions – not the worst thing that can happen in life. How to enroll in this situation?
Divorce during pregnancy – Yes, sometimes it happens, so let’s bypass without hysteria, the hallmarking of the hands and the assignment of the guy of the honorary title «goat». Situations in life are the most different, and sometimes divorce, even during pregnancy – is really the best way out.
Of course, it is important for a child to be mom and dad, but think for yourself, because there is better adequate mom and dad separately than forever trapped and embittered solvent coexistences together.
It is better to solve this issue before the birth of crumbs than to apply a deep mental injury to his gap later, because the truth? And therefore let’s take a look at the situation of divorce during the pregnancy of his wife, soberly and without superfluous emotions. Marriage is not just a cohabitation, but «sanctified» the state the Union of two people under its protection and control, and therefore, during the termination of this Union, without interference, there is no way to do without. What does Marital Relations say about this issue, Family Code?
In accordance with the Family Code during pregnancy, as well as before reaching the child of age in one year, the divorce is possible only with the mutual consent of the spouses (read – if the wife releases). This moment is very loved to declare as an unambiguous care of the state of a woman. I do not know, personally I see in this remnant of serf right only another attempt to intervene in the privacy of people.
Judge for yourself: the dissolution of marriage does not save any of the parents from the duties on the maintenance of the child, the father is still obliged to maintain the future mother of all its forced disability. At the same time, the preservation of official status will not force anyone to be a loving spouse, and even more so will not oblige to live under one roof.
But back to the practical side. From any rule there are exceptions, in our case an exception is: the claim of a husband about divorce is taken to consideration if one person recognizes its paternity. Simply put, you and your husband will explore you without your consent, if you wear a child from another man, and this man officially recognizes this fact.
In some cases, the divorce may be in your interest. For example, if your husband does not fully fulfill his material responsibilities in relation to the future kid (more simply, it does not give you money), then, as practice shows, call on the buying to answer through the court most likely if the marriage is terminated.
It is also necessary to consider the case if you want to associate your future life with another man who is ready to become the father of the child you are hatching (no matter who is the parent of the child biologically). The fact is that we have a presumption of paternity of her husband. What does this mean?
That is, if you have not concerned about this issue on time, the official father of your child will be your current husband, which will soon be a stranger person for you. What it is threatening? There are many moments in the life of a child when you need to consent «Official Father».
Such a situation can be, for example, departure of a child abroad. And not only per spectacle, but also on vacation. Even if you make absolutely whappy cases for brackets, when a former husband is engaged in small revenge, go «on bow» For permission to someone else’s person is not always nice.
Witness the development of one similar situation was the author. In the case of the father of the child was a person decent, the money was sent properly. But he was a watch worker, whose «Address is not a house and no street». It is not surprising that a woman with a child and his new husband about holiday abroad had to forget for a long time.
Of course, you should not tighten with a divorce, if your life with my husband has become unbearable. Do not hope that after the birth of a child everything will become different. No, will not. If the husband shows aggression, raises your hand on you, without taking anything, you expose the future kid of serious danger. Take responsibility for the crumb and solve for divorce.
It makes no sense to talk for a long time that the divorce is unpleasant, and the divorce during pregnancy is unpleasant, all this and so obvious. Let’s talk better about how to get out of this situation with the smallest mental losses. After all, the spiritual health of the future mother is the physical health of the future kid.
So:
In any case, if you consider the option to submit for a divorce during pregnancy, In no case do not focus on the opinion of others, ideas about imaginary integrity and notorious «and what people will say». The only thing that should be important for you is the interests of the future kid.
A decent man in any case will not leave his child without material assistance, and why try to keep a dishonest?
Legal aspect
During marriage, as well as within 300 days after a divorce (it is important to know if pregnancy showed up after dissatisfaction of the marriage) the father of the child is officially considered the husband (or a former husband) of the mother.
Psychological and household aspects
Normally undergoing pregnancy is not a disease, and in most cases, pregnant is quite capable of providing himself. However, take care that you have always access to the phone. This is especially important in late terms. Mobile phone can be, for example, hang on the neck on the strap, or use the spacious pockets, which is usually provided with clothes for pregnant women;
