Does the presence of a husband in childbirth?
Make a husband for childbirth? Meet all for both partnerships. Preparation – Find out what tests need, read feedback about childbirth with my husband
Take a husband for childbirth or not to take – that is what the question is almost for every future mother, which is thinking about partnerships. Such a service is provided today in all hospitals.
It remains to decide whether the presence of a husband needs in general, and what will be needed if he still wanted to be at this moment next to you.
See also: Preparation for childbirth – courses for future mothers and dads.
Partnerships are all pros and cons
Suffering and tormenting a loved one can not please anyone. Therefore, dads, mostly, are retisted with the question of joint birth.
But first, the future mother must decide for himself – Does her the presence of a spouse in childbirth. And, of course, give yourself a fitting for happy, lungs and trouble-free delivery. Because if you initially perceive them like a martyr’s sacrifice, then you will not get any forces to tighten the dad.
Like any event, joint labor has two sides – so What are the pros and cons childbirth with dad?
From the advantages can be noted:
- Psychological assistance mom. That is, the presence of a number of a native man who will help to cope with fears.
- Correct attitude during childbirth, Thanks to the support and empathy husband.
- Awareness of dad gravity of the child’s birth process, And as a result – strengthening attachment to the spouse, an increased sense of responsibility for their family. See also: Best Books for Future Parents.
- Rendering Pope Real Assistance in childbirth – massage, respiratory control, control over the intervals between the fights and.
- Ability to control the actions of the medical staff at childbirth.
- The ability for dad to see your baby immediately after birth. Spiritual, and the physical relationship between the father and the child is much stronger if the dad attended when it appeared.
Possible cons:
- Even a native beloved husband can be on childbirth. Sometimes it happens that a woman who dreamed of supporting the spouse in childbirth, is only irritating from his presence.
- Watch, as Folding beloved woman, and not having a chance to alleviate her suffering – it will endure not every man.
- Type of blood, yes also in such quantities, too seriously perceived by many men. As a result, the midwife can get up before choosing who she is caught – a born child or fainting dfold.
- As far as native a man will be, a woman during childbirth will be worry for your not the most attractive view and suffer from hidden complexes. What often becomes the reason for tightening labor. Of course, the husband has to send in this case the door.
- There are also cases when husbands after experienced during collaboration of stress, leaving their wives – childbirth is not that they have not brought them closer with spouses, but on the contrary, disgusting from their halves. The process of childbirth turned out to be too shocking for the nervous system, and the unattractive «truth» Birth is too heavy. If the mother will forget about the severity of labor at once, as the baby will attach to the chest, then for the Pope, such memories can remain «nightmare» in memory for life.
- There is another side «Medals»: Many men, very calm to blood and «horrors» childbirth instead of real help wives, are engaged in video filming, ask to smile into the chamber and pr. By itself, a woman who needs support at this moment, not a photo session, much joy from such «Egoism» will not experience.
Based on these «per» and «against», parents must jointly and Resolving the issue of joint childbirth in advance.
Required conditions for joint labor
What is the law on partnership law? The federal law allows her husband or other relative (mother, sister, mother-in-law and t.D.) for free childbirth.
This resolution is given to her husband subject to the following conditions:
- Consent Spouse.
- The consent of Medpersona.
- Availability of all necessary references and documents.
- No infectious diseases.
- Suitable conditions in the maternity ward For joint birth.
- No contraindications For joint birth.
It is worth remembering that not in every state maternity hospital husband will be able to attend childbirth.
If on Paid stay conditions This question depends only on the desire of spouses, then on Hosratchete Dad can give a turn from the gate, motivating the failure of the lack of conditions for the father’s daddy there. For example, the general chamber for childbirth and.
But! If the spouse is a legitimate representative of his wife, then not to let him do not have the right. To do this, you need to write power attorney.
Also, this power of attorney can be fill in mom (if, for example, a husband in departure), to a girlfriend and another adult person. True, in this case, remember that your trustee has the right instead to agree or refuse all medical interventions.
In which case the Pope’s presence is undesirable?
- With fear or reluctance, Pope (and Moms).
- From curiosity dad. That is, when he is really not ready for help, but he «Just want to see – how it is».
- With serious problems (cracks) in the relationship of spouses.
- With excessive impressionability of dad.
- Availability of complexes at mom.
Training for partnerships
Pope will be needed certificates of analysis on..
- AIDS, syphilis and hepatitis B, with (Help action – 3 months).
- Fluorography (Help action – 3-6 months).
Also need to get Conclusion Therapist After passing analyzes. Maybe you will need Additional references (It turns out individually).
The role of the future father on the birth of his wife
What will take from the dad to childbirth?
- Certificates, analyzes.
- X / b clothes and lightweight shoes, booties, gauze bandage (often in the maternity hospital is purchased surgical suit).
- Bottle of Water, Money, Telephone, Camera – capture the first meeting of the baby with mom.
- Insurance policy, passport, application for childbirth (must stand the signature of deputy- and the head doctor).
Well, of course, the dad will need self-confidence, readiness for difficulties and positive attitude.
