What is not worth talking to a man: fatal phrases and words in relationships

What should not tell a man? Tips of psychologists on Lady-Magazine.com that one can never tell a man to not destroy relationships. Fatal phrases that can not tell a man – forget them forever

Warm tender words of beloved Women are able not only to warm the man, but also inspire new peaks. But the word is the greatest tool not only in the construction of relations, but also in the destruction. See also: How to learn to understand the chosen one and correctly conduct a dialogue with him? And sometimes one phrase is capable «blew up» even those relations that lasted not one decade. What is categorically impossible to say a man?

• «It’s your fault!».
  Whatever happens in the family, the accusations – the worst of the reactions. The search for the perpetrators still does not end. And considering that relations are always «two», Both are blamed. Therefore, when a difficult situation occurs, the first thing you need to look for not the guilty, and the solution itself. See also: How not to give a relationship to go out.
  
• «Maybe you already have enough, dear?».
  Under no circumstances are you enough for a man for a sleeve if you sit in any company at the table. The result will be one – quarrel. You can hint your favorite man that he has already reached his «Golden middle» in alcohol, but only in a private atmosphere.
• «Well, I spoke!».
  Wise woman will never reproach a man in his mistakes and lesions from which no one is insured. Especially since he himself is visible to understanding this fact – that the wife was right. Be a man support, and not squeezing saw.
• «How annoys me when he does!».
  This, publicly said phrase for the benefit of relations will never go. Moreover, in this situation, you drive not only a beloved man, but also in the eyes of strangers. Public expression of displeasure with its second half talks about disrespect for him and herself. What kind of love here can we talk?
• «Always everything through you ..».
  This phrase – humiliation for a man. It is not only not to inspire your beloved on another house (repair, etc.), but completely erupt the desire to do something for you. A man should feel himself a hero, and not stretching, to which even a screwdriver cannot be trusted.
• Bed – special «territory». As for sex and close relationships – here the face for which it is impossible to overplace, very thin. Never say a man in the bed phrase, like – «Let’s quickly», «You are a thousand times better than my former» (comparison with another, especially in bed – murderous for a man), «Well, when you already end», «Let’s talk first» and pr. It is also not worth calling his childbody «Mile Kranny», «Kukusik» and other dignity of his dignity.
  
• «What are you thinking about?».
  The most annoying question for a man. He is able to bring out even the most calm representative of the strong sex. Theories on this topic exists a lot, therefore, in order not to wake the beast in their half, just cross this phrase from your memory.
• «But my former husband ..».
  As well as in «Bedroom» Question: In no situation, do not compare your fellow with former men. In addition to anger and jealousy, this phrase will not cause.
• «Choose! Or me or football!».
  The last part of the phrase may change, in accordance with the hobbies of a man – fishing, machine, etc. According to statistics, most of the parting occurs after this phrase. And not because a man fishing or football is more expensive than you, but because he is a man. That is, he will not tolerate the conditions. Therefore, the ultimatum leave with you, and methods to switch men’s attention from his hobby on yourself – a lot.
• «Nothing happened!».
  How often are we, women, repeat this phrase when a man asks for the tenth time – «Well, what happened, dear?». Forget this phrase or do not be offended later that your man has become «worry and insensible chub».
• «And mom says ..».
  All of us, adults, we understand that mom is more wise man. That her opinion is more suspended and correct. But you don’t need to repeat about this man every day. If you do not have your opinion, at least do not speak out loud that «Thus said Mama».
  
• «You are not time to sit on the diet?».
  If you think the man does not take offense when his beloved woman pokes his nose with the same shortcomings, you are deeply mistaken. A man may not show that he is offended. But your opinion expressed out loud about his too big abdomen, age and others «Defects» will be in his head for a long time. Therefore, even loving and joking such phrases do not speak – this is a blow to male pride. Risk you the fact that a man can find another, a more wise woman who will take it with any disadvantages.
• «We need to talk».
  Whatever you say after this phrase, a man is ready to take everything in the bayonets. Because after it, as a rule, the relationship should be considered.
• «Why don’t you look at me?».
  How often are women ask this question to the husbands that wrapped at the next beauty … And the meaning of hysterics? Well, looked, and that? He did not read the phone number in her eyes. A man always looks at other women – it’s natural for his male nature. Another thing – whether he looks like you? And this is already in your hands. Be for your man always interesting, beautiful and mysterious – and then it will always look at you with adoration.
• «I’m going this dress?».
  No need to ask a man this question. Whatever he answered you, you will be unhappy (in most cases). And for a man it does not matter – how much is this dress, because it is more important for him with a general impression, and because you are already late in the cinema (theater, to friends, etc.). In addition, for a man in love, a woman is good in any outfit.
• «Well, why do I need this nonsense?».
  Even if his gift is not particularly useful to you, you should not talk about it directly. Otherwise, you will have a desire to give you anything at all.
  

And – the last thing you need to remember:

• Avoid conversations about your and his past (This is an extra information in the relationship of two).
• Do not torment a man with stories about the cute little animal of your grandmother’s cousin (he is not interested).
• Do not pour him a soul about pain during menstruation, problems with relatives, colleagues and girlfriends.
• Do not criticize his parents and do not praise his men’s friends.
• AND Do not tell him about how much fans do you have (fans) at work.