Every year the family becomes older, therefore, stronger and more friendly. Tin Wedding – an important period in the life of spouses. There are a number of traditions for which this day is celebrated
Marriage Day – the starting point for the beginning of the collaborative life of spouses with all its joys and sorrows. It is in everyday life who checked how they are willing to endure the shortcomings of each other, support a partner, to become another and support for him.
There are a number of crises in a married life, and a tin wedding falls on one of them.
In this regard, the celebration of this day has a double meaning, because if the couple is still together, it means that they managed to overcome the next crisis period in their livelihood.
By this time they have long been «Passed» to each other, decided not one problem, raise children.
But life and routine can overshadow the relationship, it means that it is necessary to be a variety that will make the celebration of this important day.
This celebration and another name – McAlo wedding, but it is called much more. I hear about this holiday, many are interested, and how many years of life together is celebrated in a tin wedding. On this day, the family turns 8 years old. Sometimes the culprits of the celebration are perplexed why this day is called this way.
Most often, the name of this holiday is associated with one instructive proverb. Once upon
Mountain top, two brothers discovered a treasure – a bag in which they found a staff made of tin, and gold. Senior of the brothers decided to take a bag with gold, and the junior went to the staff. When the brothers came down from the top, the eldest was hard to carry their burden. But the younger easier overcame the descent thanks to the staff.
Moral Proverbs is that how much gold would not be in humans, it may be a rigorous burden, but a tin, which has a brilliance than a noble metal, can behave.
Why exactly this parable is associated with the celebration?
By the time the spouses will live together for 8 years, they have already managed to understand how reliable person is near, because by this moment a lot has passed together.
Many of them came to us since Rus. They are followed and respected so far, although complemented by modern traditions.
Here are some of the old customs:
- On the day, when the marriage was 8 years old, the woman’s dress was decorated with tin pieces, on which, as a rule, patterns were minted;
- On the night before the holiday, a sheet of tin was placed in the stable, and if the next morning I found a track from horse hooves, it meant that there would be a way in the family and an understanding for many years. So that this omen is fulfilled, a piece where the imprint was cut and kept at home;
- In the courtyard of the house where the tin anniversary was celebrated, put a bucket of vodka with a mug and a bucket made of tin. To drink for the happiness of the spouses could everyone who wishes. Paid for a treat coin;
- Often there was a couple who was not invited by the culprits of the celebration, but they attended the holiday. To pay them from the feast it was impossible if they snried in the bride and groom and put on the rings from the tin. True, for her presence, uninvited guests were supposed to Entertain guests.
Today, these traditions are not complied with the original form or complied with an optional version, as well as ideas that you can give to a tin wedding. For example, it used to be accepted to bring a bucket with a kvass for the celebration, which is now done hardly.
In ancient times, pies with poppies must have been attended. Cooked they should be exclusively the culprit of the celebration. You need to pay attention to the table serving. The dishes should be glittered on it, and in its appearance, it should be like a tricky thoroughly.
What gives guests?
Of course, this question will interest you if you have to visit such an event. Usually, such celebrations are given thematic gifts. But the makoy anniversary does not always require this approach.
In addition to barrels with kvass for gift spouses there are other ideas, including comic. For example, the wife has long been handed 8 cans of conservation, stews, so much so that in the house there is awning. Eat this gift was supposed to have been for 8 days so that the wishes of the guests come true.
In turn, her husband was given 8 vessels with various drinks. Usually they were hot, but if you decide to take on «Armament» this idea, choose drinks with a little degree, because you will have to drink a man either for 8 days.
Modern guests in the role of drink often choose beer. In this case, it does not hurt and very original «bouquet», For example, fish.
Thinking about what is usually given to a tin wedding, you can do without jokes, and you can prevent something necessary.
Nevertheless, you should not forget that the basic idea of the gift should be to make life of spouses easier and joyful. He must make their life easier, asking gray weekdays. These may be subjects of equipment, interior, furniture.
There will be a good gift for building materials that will be useful for repair. If you are thinking not only to the fact that you can give my husband, but also want to make a gift for a tin wedding in a joking form, you can present only one building tool, thus making a hint of repairs. It is worth saying that more appropriate such a gift will be, if his wife itself gives him. The thematic gift will be all that can somehow be associated with the tin. Even candy, coffee either tea, packed in a box made of tin, will be a relevant gift.
You can also give spouses kitchen objects made from this metal.
What do spouses give each other?
The easiest option is to give something necessary or what you want, but to pack in
Metal. Some spouses are suitable creatively to this issue and make from tin or from ordinary foil medallions, handed over to each other for some special merits.
Husband can give his wife household items made of this material. But it will be appropriate only if the spouse really wants to get such a gift. Otherwise, the present can cause disappointment or even insult.
Romantic gift will be dinner for 2 persons in a good restaurant. Such a gift will appreciate both of the spouses. By the way, it can be given to each other not only the perpetrators of the celebration, but also guests. Whoever is a donor, you need to remember that tin should glitter, and not be dim.
They can also be unusual or thematic. You can find congratulations on a tin wedding in different versions, in verse or in prose on the pages of postcards and the Internet. If you don’t like ready-made texts, you can say congratulatory words composed independently. Their main idea should be the wish of restless love and passion.
This period of marital life is to some extent a turning point, and the routine can affect relationships.
Therefore, it is necessary to desire a family to celebrate innovations, diversity. Postcard with congratulations you can give the perpetrators of the celebration in person personally or send it to the courier, as is customary in the modern world.
Whatever gift and greetings you pick up for the celebration, wishes of guests and spouses to each other should be sincere so that the family for many years was happy.